
As Catholics, we believe in the afterlife, hope for heaven, and look forward to the resurrection of our glorified bodies at the end of time. However, despite this hopeful outlook, oftentimes many people still have trouble letting go of loved ones after they have died. You may have encountered someone who has held onto the cremated remains (cremains) of a loved one in their home, or preserved them in another form, such as a piece of jewelry; perhaps you have done this yourself. While the sentimentality of these practices is understandable, keeping the remains of our loved ones is strictly prohibited by the Church. Conversely, the Church simultaneously allows, and even encourages, the relics of canonized saints to be distributed for veneration amongst the faithful, which can create confusion about the proper disposition of cremains. Understanding the distinction between the cremains of the ordinary faithful at home and the distribution of saints’ relics for veneration is important and requires examination of Church teaching on the body, resurrection, and the unique role of the saints.
The Catechism of the Catholic Church affirms that the human body shares in the dignity of the image of God and is destined for eternal glory:
The bodies of the dead must be treated with respect and charity, in faith and hope of the Resurrection. The burial of the dead is a corporal work of mercy; it honors the children of God, who are temples of the Holy Spirit. – CCC 2300
The Church has always preferred burial over cremation. However, in 1963, the prohibition on cremation was lifted for pastoral reasons such as hygiene, space, and cost, but the preference for bodily burial remains. The 1983 Code of Canon Law states, “The Church earnestly recommends that the pious custom of burying the bodies of the deceased be observed; nevertheless, the Church does not prohibit cremation unless it was chosen for reasons contrary to Christian doctrine” (Canon 1176 §3).
In 2016, the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith (CDF) issued the instruction Ad resurgendum cum Christo (“To Rise with Christ”) to address abuses of cremains. It reiterates that cremation itself does not deny the resurrection — God can raise a body from ashes as he is all-powerful — but the remains must be treated with the same reverence as an intact body. Cremains must be placed intact in a suitable vessel and interred in a sacred place, such as a cemetery, columbarium, or a dedicated church area. They may not be scattered, divided among family members, kept in homes (except in rare, exceptional cases approved by the bishop), or turned into jewelry or mementos.
While these rules may seem unnecessarily strict, they are actually rooted in compassion and love for the deceased person whose soul could be seeking and should be receiving prayer while in purgatory and whose body is awaiting its resurrection. Keeping or dividing cremains at home risks treating the deceased as a private possession or sentimental object rather than a person awaiting resurrection. It can foster superstition, pantheism (the blending of the remains with nature), or forgetfulness. Placing cremains on a shelf in the home, or worse, in a closet, fosters complacency and risks the deceased blending into the mundane and ordinary background of our daily surroundings. Burials in sacred ground ensure a permanent place for prayer, visitation, and the communal remembrance of the faithful departed. Even strangers who visit the sacred place cannot pray for the soul of the beloved deceased if their remains are kept in someone’s home. Burial attests to the resurrection and prevents the body from being commodified or lost. As Ad resurgendum cum Christo explains, this practice, “shows a greater esteem towards the deceased” and avoids “unfitting or superstitious practices” (AD #4-5).
It is not uncommon for cremains to be divided and distributed amongst loved ones. This practice fragments what should remain whole, undermining the unity of the person. Even when reduced to ashes, the body retains its dignity and its relationship to the Christian hope of bodily resurrection. Scattering ashes, or keeping cremains in the home, separates this from the Church’s sacramental life and the communion of saints. The CDF emphasizes that such practices do not reflect the “reverent disposition” required. Cremains must be interred promptly after the funeral, ideally with the body present for the rites if possible.
While this all may seem like legalism, it is actually pastoral care rooted in God’s plan for his creation. The body is not disposable matter; it is integral to our identity. Interment honors the deceased, supports the grieving by providing a focal point for prayer, and proclaims the Gospel hope against modern tendencies to minimize death or treat remains casually.
Now, why are saints’ relics unique? The veneration of saints’ relics differs fundamentally because it flows from the holiness of their lives and the Church’s canonical designation, rather than from family sentiment or disposal practices. Relics are bodily remains, such as bones or fragments (first-class), or objects used or owned by a saint (second-class). The Church has venerated them since apostolic times, especially the remains of martyrs in the catacombs, where altars were often built over tombs (cf. Rev 6:9).
The Catechism teaches, “The Christian veneration of images [and relics] is not contrary to the first commandment…The honor rendered to an image passes to its prototype” (CCC 2132; cf. CCC 1674). We do not worship (latria) relics but give them dulia – honor directed ultimately to God, who worked through the saint. The bodies of saints were temples of the Holy Spirit, instruments of virtue and miracles, and will be glorified in the resurrection. Veneration inspires imitation of their holiness, fosters communion with the Church triumphant, and seeks their intercession.
Relics are typically small fragments taken long after death, often from already buried or exhumed saints during investigations for canonization. They are authenticated, sealed in reliquaries, and placed in churches or oratories for public veneration — not scattered, kept privately as mementos, or divided arbitrarily. Significant relics (major body parts) require special permission for transfer (Canon 1190 §2). The purpose is to build up the faith of the living by making the saint’s presence tangible in sacred spaces. Miracles associated with the relics, such as healings, demonstrate God’s power working through these instruments.
Here are a few key differences and distinctions to be made between ordinary cremains and saints’ relics:
While this can be a sensitive topic, particularly for someone who is grieving the loss of a loved one, it is nevertheless important for the Church’s teaching to be properly understood. The Church never has rules merely for the sake of legalism, but always for a deeper purpose. This teaching seeks to console us. Our loved ones are not lost to us but entrusted to God’s mercy in sacred rest. The saints, already risen in soul with Christ in Heaven and awaiting the glory of the resurrection of the body, aid us from heaven. By honoring the body — whether in burial or relic — we proclaim the resurrection and the goodness of God’s creation and his plan. In the words of Ad resurgendum cum Christo, these practices help us “rise with Christ” (AD #1). May we live and die in this hope, treating every human body with the reverence it deserves as God’s handiwork.
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